Whether you’re new to the world of companionship or a seasoned client, following proper etiquette is key to ensuring a smooth and enjoyable experience for both you and your escort. This guide covers everything from booking and hygiene to safety and discretion.
Etiquette
When reaching out to an escort, a polite introduction goes a long way. A quality escort will likely have a screening process, and providing some basic details about yourself helps build trust.
✅ Be polite and respectful—whether through email, text, or in person. Even if you’re exploring role-play scenarios, ensure any non-standard communication is agreed upon in advance.
✅ Understand what’s offered. Escorts list their services clearly; if something isn’t mentioned, it’s likely not available. Always ask before the appointment rather than assuming.
✅ Read and respect their policies. Many escorts have specific guidelines on their website—take the time to review them.
✅ Communicate your expectations. If you don’t express what you’re looking for, you may leave disappointed.
Discretion & Privacy
Your escort’s privacy (and yours) should always be a priority:
🚪 If visiting a private residence, ask for specific arrival instructions. Never call an escort’s name on an intercom—just announce yourself.
🏨 In hotels, do not ask concierges or staff about the escort. If you need to clarify something, step outside or return to your car before making a call.
📞 Avoid making calls outside the escort’s location (hotel lobby, street outside their building, etc.), as this puts both of you at risk.
🚭 Check for allergies. If you’re sensitive to pets, scents, or smoke, inquire beforehand.
Hosting Etiquette
If an escort is visiting your home or hotel room:
🏡 Ensure the space is clean and comfortable. A tidy environment creates a good first impression.
🚫 Don’t ask personal questions unless the escort volunteers information. Similarly, avoid discussing other escorts—it’s unprofessional and may create discomfort.
Booking & Donations
A professional escort values her time, and you should too.
💵 Provide the donation at the start of the appointment. It’s standard practice and ensures a smooth experience.
⚠️ Be wary of requests for advance payment via wire transfer—this is uncommon and may be a red flag.
❌ Don’t negotiate rates upon arrival. If you try to haggle, expect to be asked to leave. If you’d like to extend your time, politely discuss additional compensation beforehand.
Respecting Time & Cancellations
⏳ Stick to the time you booked. While some escorts are flexible, don’t overstay unless explicitly invited.
📅 Cancel in advance if needed. Escorts understand plans change, but ghosting or last-minute cancellations are highly disrespectful.
🎁 No false promises. If you mention a future booking, review, or gift, only do so if you genuinely intend to follow through.
Personal Hygiene: Making a Great Impression
Seeing an escort should be treated like a date—basic grooming is essential!
🚿 Shower before your appointment or at the start of the session.
✂️ Trim your nails and toenails—scratching is never fun.
🪒 Groom intimate areas if you expect attention there. Leaving areas unshaved may signal that you don’t want them touched.
💨 Avoid strong colognes or deodorants on areas that may be kissed or licked.
🦷 Use mouthwash or chewing gum and avoid strong-smelling foods like garlic or curry before your meeting.
🚽 Bathroom etiquette:
- Use the toilet way before arrival—leaving bad smells is a major turnoff.
- DO NOT pee in the shower—this is a common complaint from escorts.
Sexual Health
Your safety (and the escort’s) is a top priority.
🔴 Unprotected sex is a terrible idea. If you’re still considering it, don’t ask unless explicitly offered.
🪥 Avoid brushing your teeth 30 minutes before the appointment—small abrasions increase STD risks.
🪒 Shave intimate areas the day before, not right before the session, to avoid cuts.
📦 Bring condoms just in case, but expect to use the escort’s unless otherwise discussed. If you have allergies, check in advance.
Staying Out of Trouble
To have a stress-free experience, be aware of local laws and how they are enforced.
🚔 Know the legalities of escort services in your location. While the industry has existed for centuries, laws vary, and enforcement can be strict in some areas.
👜 Protect your valuables. Theft can happen—especially in unfamiliar places—so don’t bring anything unnecessary.
🚪 Trust your instincts. If something about a location or situation feels unsafe, leave immediately.
Common Sense: Final Tips for a Great Experience
✅ Think before you act. If you’re unsure whether something is appropriate, it’s best not to do it.
✅ Treat your provider with respect. Escorts are professionals and deserve to be treated as such.
✅ Know the laws and avoid legal trouble.
✅ Listen to your instincts. If something feels off, walk away.
✅ Be careful, be respectful, and enjoy the experience.
By following this guide to seeing an escort, you’ll create a positive and enjoyable experience built on mutual respect, trust, and professionalism.